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Sunday, December 8, 2013

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If you say you love someone and your actions are unloving, then you don’t really love that person.

Let us be mindful of our actions.

The precursor to action is thought. Sometimes it can be VERY hard to be aware of what we are actually thinking, especially because many of our actions come from unconscious thoughts. If we want to tap into what’s really running us, but are having a hard time, let us see what actions we are taking.

We want love, but we run away when it shows up. There is a misalignment there of desire and thought.

We want weight loss and a healthy body, but we don’t get off our ass and exercise. There is a misalignment there, too.

In this literal Uni-verse, we can LITERALLY create (from the inside out) any type of experience we wish. It is when our desires, our thoughts and our actions are in alignment that this kind of life begins to emerge.

The seed of a desire for something greater lives within all of us, but our lack of action prevents that kind of life from unfolding.

Imagine if a farmer had seeds and land to plant his seeds, but doubted that the seeds would grow if he planted them. So if this doubt were strong enough, the seeds would never get planted. Or, they get planted, but then the farmer becomes too impatient and digs up the seeds the next day or the next week because the crop hasn’t come yet.

The farmer still has no harvest. Then a second farmer comes by at harvest time with a full crop of harvest, and the first farmer gets jealous and angry at the second farmer for having abundance. The first farmer may blame The Uni-verse or say, “People like me aren’t supposed to have this harvest,” but in reality, it is the farmer’s own doubt and impatience that prevents him from reaping his harvest.

We are many times like the first farmer. Our seeds are our desires. Our fields are our daily actions. We must plant our desires in actions and then be patient. If weeds of doubt creep in, we must clear them out. And in perfect time, we will be able to harvest the fruit of our faith.

This is how life is. We need to nurture the fertile soil of our actions with faith and patience.

So, today, are you not getting what you want? Look at your desires. Look at your actions. Where is there a disconnect? How can you adjust your actions to sync up with your desires? And, if that feels weird, how can you change your MENTAL habits to allow yourself to take the proper action that is in alignment with your desires?

The answers to the lack you may be temporarily experiencing are all within you. Show up, let go and trust The Uni-verse one day at a time. Get your desires, thoughts and actions in alignment and then let your patience and faith shower down on the fertile soil of your actions.

Your harvest WILL come.

How can you make this change today?

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Sometimes, the dynamics that we have with our families have crossed so far beyond a line that it just isn’t healthy to keep putting ourselves in their firing line and pushing ourselves to create connection that just can’t be forged when someone else isn’t having it.
If a connection with someone has deteriorated to the point where they just will not let you leave a visit without yelling, where they won’t respond to your requests for respectful communication, where they put you down, or worse, then here’s the only mantra you need: “I don’t have to.”
You don’t have to go to the holiday dinner.
You don’t have to stay on the phone for one second longer once they lay into you.
You don’t even have to call them back.
You don’t have to write the chipper Christmas card.
You don’t have to force yourself to be in the same room.
Sometimes, distance is the sane choice.
People wonder, however, if that’s the “right” thing to do. Well, here’s a great litmus test for whether or not you’ve really arrived at a point where it’s time to back off from the relationship: Do you feel upset thinking to yourself, “Fine, I’m not going to talk to her; I don’t know why I bother!” or do you feel like you’d be relieved if you didn’t need to interact with this person, yet struggle with feeling guilty about it, like you might be “mean” if you backed away?
Truth time: if it’s the former, you’re angry enough that you’re probably very actively contributing to the conflict in that relationship. It’s time to step up your skills, and work actively on resolving conflict.
If it’s the latter, you’ve probably tried fifteen things to remedy the situation, none of which worked, and you’re just… tired. Tired of trying to be sane within an insane relationship dynamic. It might just be time for a break.
The holidays are a time when we have more contact with more relationships than at any time of the year, and this brings up old relationship dynamics and triggers. When things feel chaotic and stressful, we can forget that it’s actually okay to have a calm, easeful, and peaceful life. It’s more than okay to decide to choose it, consciously, one conversation at a time.
Which of these mantras do you imagine you’ll be using this holiday season? Let me know in the comments below!
Love,

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Sunday, December 8, 2013